Marion’s story

In the face of challenges caused by dementia, music therapy has helped Marion build trust and tap into her inner musician. 

Earlier in her life, Marion worked as a nurse. Now living in a care home, Marion still feels overwhelmed by the number of tasks she believes she needs to do, and hurries through the corridors of the home talking about the jobs she must see to. As Marion is always on the move, she gets few opportunities to relax, focus on hobbies or engage with others, and she often comments that she is tired and weary.

Marion met her music therapist Pippa one afternoon while Pippa was playing the piano. The music instantly touched Marion and she began to clap along. The pair broke into a fast, improvised song, which proved that music could be a way for Marion to connect with others. After that, Marion began to have more sessions with Pippa, engaging more and more with music.

At first, Marion stayed only for one song, but over time her stamina increased and she spent a full 45 minutes in sessions. Pippa discovered that Marion used to play the piano, and while initially Marion was reluctant to play, eventually she began teaching Pippa songs that she knew. Marion taking on the role of expert in the relationship helped fulfil her need for occupation and supporting others.

Sessions with Pippa could take many forms. At times, Marion clapped and sang along to songs. She also experimented with using a softer voice, creating a gentle side to the music that allowed her to close her eyes and decompress. Whatever the format, music therapy provided Marion with a new sense of occupation, one which allowed her to be in the present, show off her humour, and enjoy being a musician. Although her daily life can be filled with the confusion and stress brought on by dementia, in music she is able to cast aside these barriers and let her playful and energetic charisma shine.

You don’t know how much sitting here and listening to you has meant to me.

Marion, after listening to Pippa play The Blue Danube

The positive effects of music therapy have been plain for all to see. Marion’s son noticed after visiting her that she seems calmer and more grounded, and he believes that music therapy has been a factor in this change. Staff in the home were amazed to see Marion engaging with an activity for such long periods of time, and loved taking part in her sessions. Although dementia makes Marion’s everyday life difficult, music is there to offer moments of relief and joy.